愛(ài)情也有訣竅：讓男生愛(ài)上你的個(gè)小技巧照著做!BEYOURSELFAllofmytipswillgiveyoutricksandideas,butImeanforthemalltobeenhancementsofwhoyoureallyare,notmakeyouintosomeoneyourenot.Ifyourefake,itdoesntmatterifyougetaguytofallinlovewithyou,becausehewontreallybeinlovewiththerealyou.So,myfirstideaistoalwaysbemyself,nomatterwhat,soaguylikesmeforme.OPTIMIZEYOURAPPEARANCEheneverImtryingtobemoreattractivetosomeone,Ialwaysoptimize.Now,thisdoesntmeanIstarvemyselftolookthin,buytonsofnewclothes,orgetadramatichaircut.Instead,Ijusttrytomakemyselflookmybest.Thismeansacuteoutfitthatemphasizesmybestfeatures,combedandfixedhair,alittlemakeup,acleanbrightsmile,andaspritzoflightperfume.LISTEN,LISTEN,LISTENGuyslovetotalkaboutthemselves,andtheythinkagirlwhoactivelylistenstothemissocharming.So,IalwayslistenmorethanItalkwhenIwastryingtoaguy.Talkaboutyourself,currenttopics,newsevents,etcabout20%ofthetirandlethimcontroltheconversationabout80%ofthetime.20%80%LAUGHALOTGuysaredrawntogirlswithagreatsenseofhumor,andIthinkhumoralwaysbeginswithalotoflaughter.So,IalwaystriedtolaughalotandbeeasytowhenIwastryingtoattractaguy.IfIwantaguytofallinlovewithme,Itolaughandallhisjokes!HAVEAGREATATTITUDEInmyexperience,guyslikegirlswithcheerful,sunnydispositions.Noonelikestohangoutwithapessimistic,negativeperson.So,IalwaystrytolookonthebrightsideoflifeandbeaglasshalffullpersonwhenImtryingtocatchahotguy.PeoplealwaystendtolookmywaymoreoftenandgravitatetowardmewhenIvegotasmileonmyface!BESWEETSometimes,Icanbecattyallgirlscanbe.WhenImwithmygirlfriends,wellgossiportrashsomeothergirlforbeingrudeortrashy,butthatsnotanicewaytoact.nd,letmeusttellyou,Ivelearnedthatthiskindofbehaviordoesntattractguys.Boysaredrawntogirlswhoaresweetanddontgossip,sokeepcattinessandsnottycommentstoyourselfaroundyournewguy.FLIRTSomeofmyfriendsusedtothinkflirtingwasbeneaththem,butImtellingyouitworks.Guysjustlovetobeshoweredwithattentionandtreatedlikeaking.Tossyourhairalittlebit,throwyourheadbackandlaugh,grinalot,andlookupandhimfromunderyoureyelashes.Eventhosetheseoldtricksmightseemtriedandtrue,theyretriedandtruebecausetheyactuallyworkBEDIFFERENTTryingtobeuniueanddifferentisawayIvealwaystriedtointerestguys.IdontwanthimtothinkthatImjustlikealltheothergirlsoutthereinstead,Iwanttobeseenascharming,witty,andsmart.o,Idonttalkaboutallthosesameoldtopics,likeschoolgossip.AskhimabouthowhefeelsaboutcurrenteventsornewsworthystoriesandshowhimyoureworldyBEWITTYAsIsaidbefore,guyslikeagirlwithasenseofhumor.Thebestwaytoshowyouvaluehumoristolaughathisjokes,butIalwaystrytocrackafewjokesmyself,too.Guysaredrawntogirlswithafunnyside,andtheresnothingthatdrawstwopeoplecloserthansharingalaugh.So,Ialwaysbustoutafewcommentsorfunnyone-linerswhenImtryingtodrawaguytome.INITIATEPHYSICALCONTACTGuyslovephysicaltouch,andtouchingsomeoneisaquickwaytodevelopintimacy.henImtryingtoattractaguysattention,Iwilllookforwaystobringphysicaltouchintoplay.orinstance,ItouchhisarmlightlywhenImlaughingatajoke,orIllslaphimonthekneeplayfullyifhesayssomethingfunny,orIlltouchhishandwhileImeplainingsomething.BRINGHIMATREATTheoldsayingthatthewaytoamansheartisthroughhisstomachisntjustanoldsayingfornoreason-itstotallytrueIalwaysbakealittletreatforaguywhenImtryingtomakehimfallinlovewithme,andthenIjustsurprisehimwithitonarandomday.WhenmyhusbandandIwerefirstdating,Ileftabagoftreatsinhislockerbeforeeveryfootballgame.Hejustlovedit!GIVEHIMFREEDOMWhenaguystryingtodetermineifyouregirlfriendmaterial,hewilltestyoualittlebit.Myadviceatthispointistogivehimhisfreedom,andthatwillsendhimrightbackformore.Inmyexperience,ifanyguyeverygottheimpressionthatIdtrytotiehimdown,hedbegonelighteningfast.o,letyourguyknowthatyouvalueandrespecthistimewithhisfriends,playingsports,orwhateveritishedoesinhissparetime.LETHIMCALLYOUWhenImtryingtogetaguy,Iplayalittlehardtoget.Idontcallhimallthetime,trytotrackhimdown,orgenerallymakemyselfabother.IwanthimtothinkthatImtoobusyouttherehavingagreattimetobotherwithhim,andthathebettergetintouchwithmeuicklyifhesinterestedinsharinganytimewithme!Lethimdothepursuing,andhellbemuchmoreinterestedinyou.PRACTICEMIRRORINGSTRATEGIESOkay,thisseemsalittlecreepyatfirst,butjusthearmeout.WheneverIwanttoimpressorcharmsomeone(notjustguys,butanyone),Idoalittlephysicalmirroring.Whatthismeansistakingwhateverphysicalactionthatpersondoes,waitingaboutfiveseconds,andthencopyingthemotion.Forinstance,ifyourguyrestshiselbowonthetable,waitfiveseconds,andthenputyourelbowonthetable.Soundssilly,butitworks!Itcreatesaconnectionbetweenmeandtheguythathejustcanteplain.MAKEEYECONTACTtaringdeeplyintosomeoneseyesconnectionbetweentwopeople.o,ifme,staredeeplyintohiseyeswhileweuicklyrampsuptheintensityofthetaringdeeplyintosomeoneseyesconnectionbetweentwopeople.o,ifme,staredeeplyintohiseyeswhileweuicklyrampsuptheintensityofthemtryingtogetaguytofallinlovewithretalking.Now,dontlooktoolong,oryoullappeartobeastalkerbutyoudefinitelywantetendedeyecontact..ONTAPPEAEPEATEGuysarentattractedtodesperate,clingygirlswhoseemliketheycantgetanyoneelse.Guysareattractedtobusy,happy,populargirlswhoseemliketheyvegotitallundercontrolandwhohavetheworldattheirfeet.Evenifyouthinkyouarentpopular,happy,orbusy,trytoappearthatwaytoyourguy.Thatmeans,dontsayyesifheasksyououtlastminute.Tellhimyouvegototherplans,butyoudlovetoschedulesomethingwithhiminafewdays.Playhardtoget!BETRUSTWORTHYGuyslovesomeonetheycantrust.Ilearnedthehardwaythattellingmygirlfriendseverythingaboutanewguyinmylifewasntthebestidea.WordalwaysgetsbacktotheguythatIvetalkedaboutwhathetoldmeortolddetailsaboutourtimetogether,andhealwaysbolts.iscretionisthebestpolicy.onttellyourgirlseverylittlebitofyourprivateconversations,andyourguywilltrustandrespectyoumuchmore.LEAVEALITTLEMYSTERYWhenIamtryingtoattractaguy,Idontwanttobeanopenbooktohim.Ivefoundthatguyslikealittlemysterytheykeepcomingbackformoreifyouleavemoretofindout.Thinkofyourinformation,history,interests,etc.likeatreasurehuntgiveyourguylittleclues,butdontlethimfindthetreasurerightaway.HellwanttokeepcallingandaskingyououtusttolearnmoreaboutyouBESUPPORTIVEOFHISINTERESTSuysloveitwhengirlsshowthteyesredirinwhatguysareinterestedin.So,evenifIhatehisfavoritesport,Imgoingtowatchitwithhimanddiscuss