1、中美家庭教育差異ContentsDifferences ResultsReasonsDifferences ConceptsMethodsAim ContentsDifferences ConceptsMethodsAim ContentsConceptsa promising future , a good job , a good life create as good conditions as possible provide everything sacrifice anything .rely on their own strength and experiencesa self-

2、supporting will and the capacity to live independently justice and freedomintellect and studyAim“ wang zi cheng long “ wang zi cheng ren to do anyting to support their children to get high markstry to train their children to have the ability of adapting to environmental variety and the ability of li

3、ving independently Methods“ control and “ seal “ letting go but “ not indulging prepare all things for their children in daily life protect the children to excess in social activities regard the grades as the only standard for future success “ Tasks Sea spend more time in studying than doing other t

4、hingsdont have to do any houseworklet the kids master many skills by training them to exercise childrens abilities of independent livingContentsmoral education intellectual education physical education artistic educationthe most important one the harmonious development of language , emotion , knowle

5、dge and so on “ education for all-around development ReasonsTraditional CultureSocial ConditionsHistorical BackgroundEconomic FormReasonsTraditional CultureSocial ConditionsHistorical BackgroundEconomic Forma shortage of environment in which people can accept new ideas easy to accept new thoughts an

6、d culture a long histroya short historyconservativesense of worthmulti-culture sense of worthlack ofspirit of adventureand innovative consciousnessbetter at taking risks and innovatingHistorical Background美中Economic Formfew opportunities to find a job even a good jobmore employment opportunitiesgett

7、ing high marks has become a necessary condition to have a good job and futureprofession is not distinguished whether it is noble or nidering as long as they can survive in society 美中Social Conditionssocial security system and old-age care have not been perfect a prosper development of economy and sa

8、ne social security systemtake their children as their private possession in order to receive the childrens returndont count on their childrens supportchildrens high scores have become their origin of pride educate a child to be an independent , conscientious and kindhearted person 中美Traditional Cult

9、urethe collective interests more important than personal interests stressing personality , upholding individual development and caring about personal benefit design childrens future standing in the adult angle andraise their children in the lifetime children after 18 years old should be independent

10、and not rely on their parents中美ResultsInterpersonal relationshipsAbility of adapting to the societyAbility of living independentlyResponsibility of supporting the oldThe relationship among family membersResultsInterpersonal relationshipsAbility of adapting to the societyAbility of living independent

11、lyResponsibility of supporting the oldThe relationship among family membersMost Ameican children can adapt to the society more smoothly than many Chinese children . They can face and overcome setbacks more easily .Ability of adapting to the societyCompared with independent American children , Chines

12、e children have particularly much requirements and strong dependence ,and they always want to get others care .Ability of living independentlyAs a result of parents overprotection , Chinese children have few abilities of personal interaction . American children are opposite at this point .Interperso

13、nal relationshipsGenerally speaking , Many American children lack the sense of responsibility to support their parents in comparison with Chinese children .Responsibility of supporting the oldAs a whole , the relationship among Chinese family members is more harmonious than that among American famil

14、y . The relationship of Chinese family is very close , but in America ,family members look like separate individuals . The relationship among family membersSuggestionsChinese parents should not only teach their children the knowledge of survival , but also the responsibilities for the society .Chinese parents must cultivate their c