1、Unit 1More Than WordsIn-Class ReadingCommunication Without Words不用話語的交流1 當你學一門外語時，你要學的不僅僅是詞匯和語法。要想成功地進行交談，你還必須學習該種文化的非言語性語言， 或者說“肢體語言”。 “肢體語言”是用來描述那些可以傳遞信息的臉部表情、 手勢以及其他身體動作的術語。 這種交流方法非常重要， 實際上我們用動作表達的信息比用言語表達的信息還要多。2 有時候我們發現說一門外語很困難，因為我們可能不了解另一種文化的非言語信號，或者說那些信號在我們自己文化中的含義可能迥然不同。例如，在世界上不同的地方，上下點頭就傳遞不

2、同的信息。在北美，該動作表示“我同意”。在中東，向下點頭表示“我同意”，而向上抬頭表示“我不同意”。日本人談話的時候這個動作通常只是表示“我正在聽”。一位在美國的日本學生好不容易才了解了其中的差異。在和一位推銷員說話的時候，這位學生禮貌性地點頭，表示他在注意聽著。結果，第二天那位推銷員就將一臺嶄新的洗衣機送到了他的公寓。3 目光接觸所表達的含義也很豐富，但是，在不同的文化中，它表達的意思也不同。在一些講西班牙語的國家，孩子們在與年長者談話時不直視對方的眼睛，以表示尊重。而在其他國家，別人則期待你看著他的眼睛。例如，如果你在美國不這么做的話，人們會以為你害怕、尷尬或者生氣了。4世界上很多地方都用

3、兩種基本的手勢來招呼別人朝自己走過來。在亞洲, 人們把手指朝下微曲，做擺手的動作，而有些北美人則用該動作向孩子們道別。北美人用類似的手勢招呼別人走過來，但是他們的手指是向上彎曲。去國外參觀的人必須了解這種差別，否則就會傳遞錯誤的信息。5我們在談話時與對方保持的距離同樣也是交流的一個重要方面，雖然我們很少想到這一點。通常，北美人比拉丁美洲人和中東人更喜歡彼此間距離大一點。在國際會議上，談話的兩個外交官可能會慢慢地從房間的這一頭移到那一頭，其中一個想竭力拉大彼此間的距離，而另一個則想竭力縮短這一距離。通常， 喜歡距離大點兒的那個人往往退到背靠墻，無路可退為止，他(拉大距離 ) 的努力也以失敗告終。

4、6盡管我們花了許多年時間來學習一門外語，如果我們不了解該文化的非言語性語言和得體的舉止的話，就會產生誤解。如果我們不知道應該握手還是鞠躬，什么時候坐著，什么時候站著， 在不熟悉的場合應該有什么樣的舉止，那么我們就沒有真正具備用外語交流的能力?；蛟S在讀、寫、說、聽四項傳統的交流技能之外還應該加上第五項技能：文化意識。After-Class ReadingHow to Talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere如何同任何人在任何時間、任何場合交談1 善于交談是生活中的一大樂趣，還能給生活帶來一些巨大的回報。有時候這并不是件容易的事。但是，你練習得越多， 就越善于交談。 如果

5、你希望能夠和任何人在任何時間和任何場合交談，你需要牢記六個要素。2 首先，你說的話無需精辟到值得讓人引用。很多時候，別人并不期待你說出雋語。他們也不會等著把你所說的話錄下來。因此，盡管開口講話吧。希望你的談吐有趣，足以吸引聽眾。3 第二，正確的態度交談的愿望是成為一個能說會道者的根本。與人交談時盡量熱情些。別人也會對你的熱情做出積極的反應，而且你會發現自己的確也變得滿腔熱情。另一方面，如果你與他人交談時缺乏熱情，他們也很容易發現，從而做出消極的反應。4 第三點要記住的是要輪流說話。仔細傾聽會使你變得更善于交談。交談中好的提問也是出色交談者的標志。 傾聽是每個人學習的一種方式。 學到的越多， 你

6、為自己成為一名優秀交談者所做的準備就越充分。5 第四個要點是應該努力開闊眼界。最優秀的交談者能夠談論日常生活之外的事情和經歷。你可以通過旅游拓寬你的世界，但也可以足不出戶就做到這一點。當然，你可以通過閱讀學習。 但是，要記住的一個要點是，那些與你背景不同的人可以開闊你談話的內容和拓展你的思維。6 第五點要記住的是，嚴肅的談話時間不應過長。幽默感很有用，有時講個和自己有關的小笑話會使談話輕松起來。7 最后，與人交談要真誠。你應該對你的交談對象坦率、誠實，正如你也希望他們這樣對待你一樣。 你要樂意告訴他們你的背景以及個人好惡。這是談話中互相理解、平等交換的一個重要方面，一個了解別人和讓別人了解自己

7、的重要方面。坦誠示人，這樣準沒錯。8 無論你和一個人交談還是和許多人交談，規則都是一樣的，都是為了建立聯系。只要表現出你的同情心、熱情和傾聽的愿望，你就一定會成為一名談話大師。課內閱讀練習答案Part One Preparation1. Why Are You Speaking?STEP ONE Sample1 ? A young man and a young woman are looking at a painting. The man is putting his arm around the woman. They seem like a couple. The painting s

8、hows a very romantic scene with a castle and a young couple who look like a prince andprincess. They are facing each other and holding each other s hand as if sayingwill love you forever” .? The man is expressing his feelings or hope. I think he must be in love with this woman, so he wants to give t

9、he woman some hints, wishing that he and the woman could develop a relationship as intimate as the two in the painting, get married and live happily ever after.2 ? Two boys are fighting, one lying face down on the floor and the other sitting on him. The one who is sitting has a scar on his face. The

10、y must have fought with each other fiercely. The young woman who looks like a mother is holding one of the boy shands and says:“ That s very naughty!”? She is criticizing the children behaviors and hopes that they would not do this again.3 ? Two people are standing near to something which looks like

11、 a rock or a parcel. Thewoman is asking:“ What do you think it is?”?She is curious and is asking about the man s idea.4 ? An old man is lying in the bed. He seems to need some rest or sleep. But a little boy wearing a pair of dark glasses is playing in his room. The boy is squatting near theold man

12、s bed, holding a gun and pointing it at him. The boy s mouth is open asimitating gun shots.?He asks the boy not to disturb him. He must be somewhat unhappy.STEP TWOSample?To greet people.“ Glad to meet you.”?To ask for directions.“ Could you tell me where the railway station is?”?To make an invitati

13、on.“ I d like you to come and have tea with us on Friday.”?To make a request.“ Could I ask you to write him a letter?”?To make an inquiry.“ Do you know the assignment for today s English class?”?To apologize.“ Forgive me for being late.”?To ask for permission.“ May I use your dictionary?”?To express

14、 thanks.“I really don t know how I can thank you enough.”Part TwoReading-Centered ActivitiesIn-Class ReadingPost-ReadingReading Comprehension1 1 Introduction ( Para. 1)Body language / non-verbal language is also an important means of communication.2Communicating in a foreign language can be difficul

15、t if we don understand the non-verbal signals of that culture. ( Para . 2-5)For example,A the gesture of nodding the head (up and down), (Para. 2)B eye contact, (Para. 3)C the sign of waving the hand, (Para. 4)D personal conversation distance. (Para . 5)3 Conclusion (Para. 6)To communicate successfu

16、lly in a foreign language, we need to master a fifth skill, cultural awareness.2 1 Because we may not understand the non- verbal signals in its culture, or they may mean something different from what they mean in our own culture.2Facial expression, gestures, and other movements of the body that send

17、 messages.3Because he thought the Japanese student was expressing“ I agree to buy the machine”by nodding his head.4People are expected to look into the other person s eyes during a conversation.5 The Asian schoolboy may come closer instead of going away.6 Because they come from different countries a

18、nd prefer different conversation distances.7 It thes awareness of differences between different cultures. / It thes awareness of proper behavior in different cultures.3 Sample1? Shaking hands is the customary form of greeting all over the world.?Hugging and kissing when greeting are common in most W

19、estern countries.?Displaying the index and middle fingers in the shape of a“ V” means“ victory“ peace ” .?The “ O.K. ” gesture is used to mean“ O.“K. worthless”,“zero”. , or?The thumbs-up gesture is used to say“ Good job!” ,“ O.K. ” or“ Great!”? A person may point to their nose or chest to indicate

20、themselves.? A person may pat their head to show that they are thinking hard.?A person may shake their hand to say “ No! ”?Crossing the forefinger and the middle finger has two meanings: a) wishing forgood luck to happen, b) I m not telling the truth (often done with the hand behindthe back to hide

21、crossed fingers from view).2? eating with your left hand in Indi a;?touching someone else s head in India;? the “ O.K. ” sign in Germany and Brazil;? hugging or kissing a stranger or acquaintance in countries like China;? the thumbs-up gesture in Australia;? resting the feet on tables or chairs in F

22、rance;? conversing with hands in pockets in France;? touching or pointing at someone with your feet;?Under no circumstances should you indicate“ O.K. ” to a German using your thumband forefinger to form a circle that would be considered rude;? The thumbs-up sign is downright offensive in Iran and ma

23、ny Middle East countries;? In Korea, it is rude to blow your nose in front of people. When talking to someone, keep your hands in full view. It is rude to keep your hands behind your back or in your pockets;? In Thailand, people point to an object with their chins, not their hands;? In Japan and Ame

24、rica, it is unacceptable for two adults of the same sex to hold hands while walking together.Vocabulary11BAone of two or three periods that the school or university year is divided intoBa word or expression that has a particular meaning, especially in a technical or scientific subject2 BA the money

25、or income that one hasB a way or method of doing or achieving sth.3 AA a gesture, sound or action which is intended to give a particular messageB a series of radio waves, light waves, or changes in electrical current that may carryinformation4 BA a short written or spoken noteB the most important id

26、ea in a book, film, speech, etc.5 AA onlyB in a way that is easy to understand6 AA the act of communication with a person, organization, country, etc. B the state of touching sth.7 BA a long raised mass of water moving across the surface of the sea B a sign of greeting made by raising and moving the

27、 hand8 AA the amount of area, room, etc. that is empty or available to be used B the area beyond the Earth where planets, stars, moons, etc., exist2 1 gesture2signal3misunderstanding4behaved5 curls6rarely7means8bow / bowed9 contact10facial11awareness12 occurTranslation1You won t get the job unless y

28、ou ve got the experience.2 I spent most of my time studying the differences between Chinese and American cultures.3The statement is so clear that it canny misunderstandingcausea.4 He wishes he could give her more help than he does.5 Remember to invite her to the birthday party, or she would complain

29、.6 “ Youhave to add $2,500 for equipment purchase / buying equipment to the cost, ”said the director.7 It is important to be aware of your strengths and weaknesses and the environment you are in.8 You will soon find yourself without any friends at all if you keep on being so rude to everybody.Part T

30、hreeFurther Development3. To Be a Good Listener in the English ClassSTEP TWO Sample1 I should concentrate throughout the class and ask the instructor to explain things I don understand either in class or after class.2I should ask theinstructor to repeat the question first and then decidewhether I cananswer the question.3I should not dwell on words I don t know. Instead, I should skip them and keep goingso that I won t miss t