1、獨(dú)生子女的弱點(diǎn)獨(dú)生子女存在的弱點(diǎn)已經(jīng)使家長(zhǎng)們擔(dān)憂，這種弱點(diǎn)一方面來(lái)自“獨(dú)生本身, 另一方面來(lái)自于“獨(dú)生導(dǎo)致家長(zhǎng)出現(xiàn)的教養(yǎng)態(tài)度偏差和教育方式不當(dāng)。 這兩方 面的原因使一些孩子出現(xiàn)了毛病。Of the weakness of only childrenhave parents worry that thisweakness from single itself on one hand, on the other hand from the only cause pare nts reari ng attitude deviati on and improper educati on methods

2、. These two reas ons make some childre n appeared a problem.“獨(dú)生的孩子在家庭里沒(méi)有年齡相近的伙伴，于是沒(méi)有與兄弟姐妹共同生 活、交往的經(jīng)歷，家長(zhǎng)對(duì)孩子的關(guān)愛(ài)也更多。當(dāng)孩子得到超量的愛(ài)、超量的呵護(hù) 時(shí)，家長(zhǎng)的教育理智被嚴(yán)重淡化了。家長(zhǎng)的教育出現(xiàn)了以下失誤 ：Only children in the family there is no age in close partners, sothere is no relati on ship with brothers and sisters live together, experien

3、ee,and parents more care for children. When childrengetexcess excess of love, care, pare nts educati on is a serious reas on. The pare nts educati on appear the follow ing error:1、要什么給什么，這是獨(dú)生子女自私任性的根本原因。當(dāng)他的要求都得到滿(mǎn)足，他會(huì)讓為生活沒(méi)有約束，變得不考慮別人。1, what to what, this is the root cause of the only-child selfish c

4、apricious. Whe n he dema nds have bee n met, he would have no con strai nts, for the life becomes not con sider others.2、過(guò)分地受人關(guān)注，這是孩子以自我為中心的來(lái)源。鋼塑土工格柵當(dāng)孩子 受到家人過(guò)多的關(guān)心時(shí)，他以為自己永遠(yuǎn)是的中心，他們會(huì)表現(xiàn)出缺乏愛(ài)心。2, too much concern, it is the source of childre n to be self-ce ntered.Whe n child care by family too, he though

5、t he forever yes cen ter, they will show a lack of love.3、缺乏紀(jì)律性,內(nèi)心無(wú)善惡的界線。主要是因?yàn)榧议L(zhǎng)教育不得法，對(duì)越軌行為采取了過(guò)于溫和的態(tài)度，使孩子對(duì)行為沒(méi)有正確認(rèn)識(shí)3, lack of discipli ne, the heart has no boun daries betwee n good andevil. Not method is mainly because parents education,attitude todevia nt behavior take n too gen tle, make the child

6、 without the correctun dersta nding of behavior.4、父母被孩子控制。由于只有一個(gè)孩子，父母往往更放縱孩子的行為，使孩子有了一套對(duì)付父母的方法。起重機(jī)配件以此控制父母并到達(dá)自己的目的4, controlparents were children. Since there is only one child, pare nts tend to be more in dulge nt childre ns behavior, make the childhave a way to deal with pare nts. Pare nts to con

7、trol and achieve their own purposes.這些家長(zhǎng)教育造成的原因，使獨(dú)生子女出現(xiàn)了一些問(wèn)題丙烯酸聚氨酯。The reason caused the parents education to make the one-child appeared some problems.1、孩子只知接受愛(ài)，不知給予愛(ài)。1, the childre n know only accept love and give love.2、孩子惟我獨(dú)尊而且任性。2, children self-centered and willful.3、孩子缺乏責(zé)任心和義務(wù)感。3, childre n l

8、ack the sense of resp on sibility and sense of obligati on.4、孩子消費(fèi)超前,道德滯后4, childre n ahead of con sumpti on, moral lag.5、孩子依賴(lài)性大，各種能力差5, children dependency is big, all kinds of ability is poor.6、孩子有孤獨(dú)感,社會(huì)交往能力差6, childre n with Ion eli ness and poor social skills.這些毛病表現(xiàn)在孩子身長(zhǎng)，但主要原因卻是家長(zhǎng)造成的，因此,家長(zhǎng)應(yīng)從自身 找原

9、因,防患于未然。首先要?jiǎng)?chuàng)造條件，讓孩子多與小伙伴交往，讓他在集體中成 長(zhǎng)。其次，建議家長(zhǎng)把過(guò)量的保護(hù)降溫，華山松對(duì)待孩子更理智一些，不讓孩子感覺(jué) 他在家里是眾人關(guān)注的中心。These problems in childrensheight, but the main reason is thepare nts, so pare nts should look for reas on, to nip in the bud. First n eed to create conditions to let children associate with friend, let him grow in the collective. Second, suggested that