FamilyLife九年級上冊—牛津滬教版—英語—第三單元Unit3ExtensiveReading教學目標1.通過閱讀，了解父母與孩子之間的代溝;2.通過閱讀，理解并與父母更好地溝通;3.通過詞匯、句型的積累，學會給他人提出建議;4.通過文章內容和提示，總結關鍵詞。Lead-inStillnotgettingoutofbed?Quick,getoutofbed!Stillnotgoingtobedyet?Gotobedsoon,youhavetogetupearlytomorrow!StopwatchingTV!/playing!Studyhard!UncleLi’sdaughtergot100intheexam!Agirlshouldbehavelikeagirl!Idothisforyourowngood.

Areyoufamiliarwiththesewords?Naggings

嘮叨Rosie

Rosiewroteadiaryabouthermom'snaggings.Let'sreaditandanswerthesefollowingquestions.1.WhichaspectsdoesRosie'smomnag?2.WhatisRosie'sattitudetowardshermom'snaggings?Howcanyouknowthat?3.WhatshouldRosiedo?

Whataremom'snaggings?Ofcoursetheyarethethingsthatourmothersalwayssaytous.BelowaresomenaggingsthatIhavetohearregularly,maybetooregularly!

ItisalwaysalittlescarywhenmomknowsthatI'vedonesomethingwrongorbeendisobedient.ThenIhearthingslike:

"AnswermewhenIaskyouaquestion!Areyoulyingtome?"

ThenwhenIwasfoundmakingmistakes,shesays:

"Aslongasyouliveundermyroof,youshoulddoasIsay."

"Don'tletmecatchyoudoingthatagain!"

Momspendsalotoftimecleaning,doesn'tshe?Shespendsjustasmuchtimetryingtogetustodoourshareoftheworkwithwordssuchas:

"AllIdoisfollowingyouaround,pickingupafteryoulikeamaid."

"Doyouthinkyoursocksaregoingtopickthemselvesup?"

IfIhaven'tyettoldherthatIamgoingtoaparty,Ishouldprepareforthesequestionsinadvance:

"Goingtoaparty?

Who'sgoingtobethere?Willtheirparentsbehome?

Whenwillyoubeback?"

"It'snotthatIdon'ttrustyou.It'sthatldon'ttrusteveryoneelse."

Thenitischoosingwhattowear:

"Howcanyouhavenothingtowear?Yourwardrobeisfullofclothes!"

And,whenIhavefinallychosensomething:

"Areyougoingoutdressedlikethat?"

Finally,ifyouaretiredofwhatshesays,herwordswillbe:

"I'lltreatyoulikeanadultwhenyoustartactinglikeone."

"You'llunderstandwhenyou'reolder!"

HowcanIhaveadayofpeaceandquiet!Thefirstpassaage:Mom'snaggings

(onyourhandout)10minsWhichaspectsdoesRosie'smomnag?

1.A_________ttitude"AnswermewhenIaskyouaquestion!"

"Areyoulyingtome?""Don'tletmecatchyoudoingthatagain!"

2.M_________istake"AllIdoisfollowingyouaround,pickingupafteryoulikeamaid.""Doyouthinkyoursocksaregoingtopickthemselvesup?"

3.H________abit

4.S_________"Goingtoaparty?Who'sgoingtobethere?Willtheirparentsbehome?Whenwillyoubeback?""It'snotthatIdon'ttrustyou.It'sthatldon'ttrusteveryoneelse."afety"Howcanyouhavenothingtowear?Yourwardrobeisfullofclothes!""Areyougoingoutdressedlikethat?"

5.D_________ressingWhatisRosie'sattitudetowardshermom'snaggings?

BelowaresomenaggingsthatIhavetohearregularly,maybetooregularly!Finally,ifyouaretiredofwhatshesays…HowcanIhaveadayofpeaceandquiet!helpless!!!impatientunhappyannoyedangry

WhatshouldRosiedo?1234

Whataremom'snaggings?Ofcoursetheyarethethingsthatourmothersalwayssaytous.BelowaresomenaggingsthatIhavetohearregularly,maybetooregularly!

ItisalwaysalittlescarywhenmomknowsthatI'vedonesomethingwrongorbeendisobedient.ThenIhearthingslike:

"AnswermewhenIaskyouaquestion!Areyoulyingtome?"

ThenwhenIwasfoundmakingmistakes,shesays:

"Aslongasyouliveundermyroof,youshoulddoasIsay."

"Don'tletmecatchyoudoingthatagain!"

Momspendsalotoftimecleaning,doesn'tshe?Shespendsjustasmuchtimetryingtogetustodoourshareoftheworkwithwordssuchas:

"AllIdoisfollowingyouaround,pickingupafteryoulikeamaid."

"Doyouthinkyoursocksaregoingtopickthemselvesup?"

IfIhaven'tyettoldherthatIamgoingtoaparty,Ishouldprepareforthesequestionsinadvance:

"Goingtoaparty?

Who'sgoingtobethere?Willtheirparentsbehome?

Whenwillyoubeback?"

"It'snotthatIdon'ttrustyou.It'sthatldon'ttrusteveryoneelse."

Thenitischoosingwhattowear:

"Howcanyouhavenothingtowear?Yourwardrobeisfullofclothes!"

And,whenIhavefinallychosensomething:

"Areyougoingoutdressedlikethat?"

Finally,ifyouaretiredofwhatshesays,herwordswillbe:

"I'lltreatyoulikeanadultwhenyoustartactinglikeone."

"You'llunderstandwhenyou'reolder!"

HowcanIhaveadayofpeaceandquiet!Thefirstpassaage:Mom'snaggingsadj.不服從的，違抗的n.女仆，傭人提前n.衣柜，衣櫥

Itisapopulartermusedtodescribewidedifferencesbetweenmembersofayoungergenerationandtheirelders.GenerationgapThesecondpassage(5mins)Whatisthegenerationgap?1.Whatisthegenerationgap?2.Whydoparentsandchildrenhavegenerationgap?3.Whatistheresultofgenerationgap?4.Howcantheysolvethegenerationgap?

Readandanswer

Thedifferencebetweenparentsandchildrenintastes,valuesandthewaytheydealwithproblemsiscalledgenerationgap.Itisacommonsituationallovertheworld.Teenagershaveastrongwishforfreedom.Theywanttowearcoolclothes,havecoolhairstylesandtalkinacoolway.Thisdrivestheirparentsmadbecausetheyhavenoideawhattheirchildrenarethinkingabout.Theymayevenfeelembarrassedwhentheygooutwiththeirchildren,becausetheythinktheirchildren'slifeisamess.However,ifparentsdon'ttrytounderstandtheirchildren,youngpeoplemayfeelawfulandbegintohatetheirfamily.Tosolvetheproblemsthegenerationgapcauses,parentsandchildrenshouldsitdownandtalkaboutit.Astheygrowup,childrengraduallybecomemature(成熟的).Andthentheywillcometounderstandtheirparents,andtheymayfeelashamedoftheirstrangebehavior.Whatisthegenerationgap?1.Whatisthegenerationgap?(P1)Thedifferencebetweenparentsandchildrenintastes,valuesandthewaytheydealwithproblems.2.Whydoparentsandchildrenhavegenerationgap?(P2)Becauseteenagershaveastrongwishforfreedom,buttheirparentshavenoidea

whattheirchildrenarethinkingabout.3.Whatistheresultofgenerationgap?(P2)Ifparentsdon'ttrytounderstandtheirchildren,youngpeoplemayfeelawfulandbegintohatetheirfamily.4.Howcantheysolvethegenerationgap?(P3)Parentsandchildrenshouldsitdownandtalkaboutit.Thethirdpassage(ontextbookP45,8mins)HowtocommunicatewithyourparentsReadfordetailsParagraphTip(s)Thingsyoumustunderstand2·Make______________________________________________________________·Witheachofthesethings,tryto__________________________________________________Itisnogoodtorequireeverythingto___________.Youhaveto_______________________ifyouwantyourparentstochange.3·_________________________whenitis

convenientforthem.·___________withyourparents.Yourparentsmayhavetoworklong

hoursandtheymay_________.alistofthethingsyouandyourparentsdisagreeaboutmost.goyourwayfindanansweracceptabletobothyouandyourparents.bereadytochangealittleTalktoyourparentsBepatientfeeltiredParagraphTip(s)Thingsyoumustunderstand4

·______________________________________.Listentoyourparents_________________________________.Parentscan____________________________thanyouexpect.5

·Ifyoudonotgetasatisfactory

result,__________________.·_________yourparentsand________theirreasons.Learntolivewith____________Learntounderstand_________________________________________.

ListentowhatyourparentshavetosayifyouexpectthemtolistentoyouunderstandyoursituationbettertrynotgettooangrydisagreementsTalkwithfindoutanotherperson’swayoflookingatthings另外，你的父母也曾經和你一樣年輕，所以他們比你想象的要更了解你的情況。成長的一部分就是學會忍受這些分歧，并學會理解別人看待事物的方式。對于這些事情，試著找到你和你父母都能接受的答案。所有事情都要按照你的想法來對你并沒有好處。ReadandenjoyPost-readingactivityAliceMike

MikeandAlicebothfinditdifficulttocommunicatewiththeirmothers,whichmakesthemreallyunhappy.Canyougivethemsomeusefuladvice？Mike:Ilovemymombutshealwaysnags(嘮叨）me.ShesaysI'malwayslateandmyphonebillistoohigh!Iknowshecaresaboutme,butIthinkshesometimesactslikemyboss!Thisoftencausesproblemsbetweenus.DearMike,I'mwritingtogiveyousomea_______aboutyoursituation.Youcomplainthatyourmomn_____youalot.Don’tgeta_____________easilyandshejustworriesaboutyou.Herearesometipsforyou.Firstly,listentowhatshehastosay.Youshouldu__________herreasonsfirstsothatyoucantalkwithher.What'smore,letherknowthatyouhaveaproblemwithhernaggingsandtrytofindanwaya_________tobothofyou.Lastbutnotleast,r______herandremembershelovesyoumostinthisworld.yours,Tony

dviceagsngry/annoyed

nderstandcceptableespectAlice:Ioftenarguewithmymomaboutmyhomework.WhenIfinishmyhomeworkearly,sheaddsmoreexercises.What'smore,sheneverletsmeusemycomputeronmyown.Shesaysit'ssodangerousformetosurftheInternet.I'mnotalittlegirlanymore!DearAlice,

I'msorrytohearthat_____________________________________________.Theseproblemsarequitenormal,perhapsthefollowingadvicecanhelpyou.IfIwereyou,Iwould_____________________________________________.You'dbetter____________________________________________.Besides,____________________________________________________________________________.Youshould__________________________________________.Then,youcan__________________________________________________________________.

youhavetroublegettingalongwellwithyourmom

communicatewithhercalmlyaboutthehomeworknotarguewithherbecauseitmayhurtherfeelingsyoursafetysomuchthatshedoesn’tallowyoutouseyourcomputeraloneshemustcareaboutunderstandyourmom’swayoflookingatthingsthatyouarenotalittlegirlandyoucanprotectyourselfpersuadehertotrust

Howcanyoucommunicatewithyourparents?

Shareyourfeelings.Bereadytochangealittle.Communicatecalmly.Bepatientwithyourparents.Listentoyourparentsandtrustthem.Respectyourparents.Acceptthedisagreements.Understandyourparents'waysoflookingatthings.

Summary1.ReviseyourlettertoAlicewithyourclassmates.2.Finishtheexerciseson