Book3-Unit1Knowingme,knowingyou------Startingout&UnderstandingideasWarmingupLookatthepictureanddescribewhateachpersonisdoing.①

Heissittingalonewithadrink③

Heisquarrellingwithanotherguy.Heisveryangryandshoutingathim.④Heistalkingwithsomepeopleexcitedlyandhelooksdelighted.⑤Sheisofferingcakestoaguyhappily.⑥Sheisbreakingacup.Shelooksfrightened.②Hemaybehungryandheiseagertohavefood.kindfriendlygenerousconsideratewarmfunnyfrankreliableoutgoinghumoroushospitablehonestcheerfulpositiveoptimisticrudeinconsideratemoodymeandishonestunreliableunfriendlynarrow-mindedself-centereddullselfishTalkaboutwhatkindofpersontheymightbe.positivenegativeTalkaboutwhatkindofpersontheymightbe.①shyandquite②optimistic

andoutgoing③

rudeandbad-tempered④humorous,talkative,friendlyandconfident⑤friendly,kind

andpolite⑥careless1.Whatdothethreeconversationshaveincommon?

Theyareallaboutimpolitebehaviorsindailylife.2.Whatwouldyoudoinsimilarsituations?

Forexample:

Situation1:Iwouldthankthemanforhishelpwithoutcomplaining.

Situation2:IwouldlistentoPerson1patientlywithoutinterrupting.

Situation3:IwouldthankPerson2forthepresentsincerelywithoutaskinghowmuchitis.

Warming-upAnswerquestions1.What'sthemostdifficultproblemyouhavesufferedatschool?2.Whowillyouturntoforhelpwhenyoufaceproblems?

FriendsParentsTeachersOnlineforumsnoone–youprefertokeepthingstoyourselfOther:__________AgonyAuntPre-readingAnagonyauntisaBritishadvicecolumnistwhogivesadvicetopeoplewhosendinpersonalproblemstotheadvicecolumnofanewspaperoramagazine.Pre-readingWhichwordismissing？loosefaultstrategyresolvesignalconcernbreathsinkletoffsteampullone'sweight

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While-readingChoosethebestsummaryoftheletters.1.Bensaidsomethingbadabouthisfriend,andAgonyAunttoldhimtoapologizetohisfriend.2.Benwasangrythathisteamwasletdownbysomemembers,andAgonyAunttoldhimtotakeiteasy.3.Bendidn’tplaywellinthematch,andAgonyAuntadvisedhimtoapologizetohisteammate.4.Benwasinanawkwardsituation,andAgonyAuntgavehimsuggestionsastohowtodealwithhisproblems.wholecontentstopicStageWhile-readingReadtheletterfromBentoAgonyAuntandfindBen's

problemsandthe

situationheisin.Iwasdisappointedwithmyteammate,becauseIfelt1.__________________byhimItoldmybestfriendthatmyteammatewastoblame,just2.______________Mybestfriend3.__________________

______________.Idon'tknowwhattodoBen'sproblemsBen'ssituationawkwardembarrassedashamedAtotalmess!!!theteamwasletdowntoletoffsteam.wentandtoldeveryoneelsewhatI'dsaidIcan’tconcentrateonanything!socialdeathWhile-reading

Whoshouldbetoblame?BenbestfriendteammateToldBen'ssecrettoeveryoneDidn'tdohisbestinthematch.LetoffsteamwithoutthinkingWhile-reading

Readpara.1-3andfindthetopicsentencesofeachparagraph.ThereisanoldAmericansaying,“Looselipssinkships.”ButIhavetosaythatit’spartlyyourfault,isn’tit?Thesituationhereissomuchworsebecausethe“l(fā)ooselips”isyourbestfriend.Para.1Para.2Para.3AnalysisoftheproblemWhile-reading

Readpara.1-3andfindthetopicsentencesofeachparagraph.ThereisanoldAmericansaying,“Looselipssinkships.”ButIhavetosaythatit’spartlyyourfault,isn’tit?Thesituationhereissomuchworsebecausethe“l(fā)ooselips”isyourbestfriend.Para.1Para.2Para.3AnalysisoftheproblemgeneralprinciplespecificanalysispersonalreasonsStage3While-readingReadthesesentencesandfindAgonyAunt'sskillstoanalysetheproblem.Treatedthisway,you'resuretofeelhurt

---weshouldalwaysbeabletotrustthoseclosesttous,andithurtsevenmorewhenwefindwecan't.Youadmitthatyouwere“l(fā)ettingoffsteam”.Itisunderstandableinthatsituation,butweshouldalwaysthinkbeforewespeak.Tips:Payattentiontothesentencesinred.empathyTeammateBestfriendYourselfadvicereasonsspecificmethodsApologizetohim.Toworktogethertowinmorebasketballgames.Tellhimdirectlyandhonestlythatyouweretalkingwithoutthinking.Talktohim.Torepairthefriendship,whichisoneofthegreatestthingsintheworld.Tellhimyou'reangrybutyouwanttomoveon.Don'tsaytoomuchwhenyou'reangryFilledwithanger,youtendtogivepeoplethewrongsignal.Takeadeepbreath,calmdownandraiseyourconcernsinaprofessionalway.Stage3While-reading

Readpara.4-6andfinddetailsabouthowAgonyAuntgiveshersuggestions.SolutionstotheproblemAgonyAunt’sstrategiesforgivingadvice

AnalysisSolutionsconclusiongeneralprinciplespecificanalysispersonalreasonsadvicereasonsspecificmethodsempathyPost-reading

WhatdoyouthinkofAgonyAunt'sadvice？Post-readingThink&Share

1.

WhatotheradvicewouldyougivetoBen?

Ifyoufeelalittleembarrassedtoapologizeyourteammatedirectly,youcouldwritehimaletterorE-mail.

2.Whatisyourunderstandingofthesaying“Looselipssinkships”?DoyouknowanysimilarsayingsinChinese?

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