JinxiangZhu020230239Notnaturalenemies,butthedifferencesinthinking,letthemfeudingwitheachotherThedifferencebetweenmenandwomenThedialogueofmisunderstandingWoman:Yes,Ijustfeelwronged.WhyotherpeoplecandriveaBMWeverydaybutIponder(琢磨)repeatedlyeventakingataxi.Man:Icannotgiveyoutheseandyoujustgooutofthehousetofindthesepeoplewhocangiveyou.Woman:Idonotwanttotakethebusanymore!It’stoocrowded!Theworsethingisthatotherssteppedonmykicks.Man:Youarenottheonlyoneinthecrowded.Weallgotoworkbybus.Woman:someoneissomeoneelse,Iamme!Ijustcannotstand!Man:Youcanjusttakeataxi,I‘llreimburse(報銷)you.Woman:Comeon,lookatyoupatheticwages.Man:Doyouthinkyouarewronged(受委屈的)becauseIcannotbuyacarforyou.Man:1)Theydonotunderstandawoman'srapidchangingidea.2)Manliketomakethingssimple,especiallyforemotionalaspect.3)Manfearmostisthatthewomansaythathewasworsethanothers.ThedialogueofmisunderstandingWoman:1)Towinthesympathyofothers.2)Infact,shejustneedasimplecomfort.3)Justwantthemantobegoodtoher.Analysis:

Somecomics--buyaphoneMan:A:Whatphonedoyouwant?B:Thecpushouldbefournuclearswithlargescreen……Woman：A:Whatphonedoyouwant?B:Apinkone.Somecomics--ApologizeManapologizetowoman:A:Dear,I‘msorry,Iwaswrong.B:Nothingwrongwithyou.A:Idefinitelychangenexttime.B:youdon’tneedanychange.A:Iloveyou.B:Iknow.B:?Womanapologizetoman:A:Baby,I'msorry,Iloveyou.B:Doyouknowwhat’swrong.A:

B:Well,Iforgiveyou.Somecomics

--eatingWoman:Beforetheeating:A:I’mstarvingtodeath,Icaneattenbowlsofrice.Aftereatingabowl:A:I’mfull.Man:Beforetheeating:A:I’mnotveryhungry,eatingabiteisOK.Aftereatingabowl:A:Abowlmore.Somecomics--fightingBoysbecomereconciledsoonafterthefighting.Womenwillharborresentmentlongafterthefighting.Hobbies:Woman’shobbiesfromchildhoodtoadultshoppingMan’shobbiesfromchildhoodtoadultShopping:Amanwillpay$2fora$1itemheneeds.Awomanwillpay$1fora$2itemthatshedoesn'tneed,butit'sonsale.

Womantreatshoppingasapleasure,theycannotevenbuyanythingbutanafternoonstroll,thereby,mancan’tdothatvoluntary.AvedioaboutthedifferencesbetweenmenandwomenTalkingandSpeaking:

Observingthelesbianandgayperspectively，thereexists

averybigdifference.Althoughthereisnofiguredescribedsoobviously,I'msurethatthemostofthewomenmaypaymoreattentiontodetails,whilemenoftentakeiteasy

Takethetelephoneforexample,Menseeitjustasacommunicationaltool.Theyusethetelephonetosendshortmessagestootherpeople.Awomancallonefriendwhommeteachotherthismorningandtheycouldtalkforseveralhours.

Asimpleconversationcanbedifferenteventtoamanandawoman.Foraman,aconversationisawaytodefineaproblem,debatetherightsandwrongs,andfindasolution.Butawomanwouldratherhaveafriendlyearfromaman,insteadofadvice.Womenmoreoftenviewconversationasawayofsharingtheiremotionswiththelistener.Theytalkuntiltheyfeelbetter.BeingmysympatheticearConclusion:Althoughtherearemanydifferencebetweenmenandwomen,it’llnotbedifficultforustocommunicatewitheachotherandmakeourselvesunderstood,ifwetrytocooperatewithotherpeopleinourlifeandwork-time.Actually,eachofusshouldthinkabouttheprobleminthewayourpar